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We found that to themselves in levels of physical attractiveness, or even slightly more attractive—potentially exhibiting “partner enhancement” or “positive illusions” (see Morry et al., 2010; Conley et al., 2009).
They would prefer someone who is equal to them in these areas than someone who is lower.
According to NYMag.com, researchers found that "while those who had begun going out recently were rated as equally physically attractive, there was often a clear 'hot one' in couples who had known each other for extended periods of time (as friends or acquaintances) before they became involved romantically."This is two pieces of good news disguised as one, because a) you've potentially already met your future husband but haven't realized you're in love with him yet, and b) if you meet someone painfully more attractive than you, you can wear him down with years of friendship and subtly make him love you.
The study focused on couples who were dating or married, and had been together from anywhere from three months to 53 years; their individual physical appearance (as assessed by undergrad coders, who obviously know what they're doing in that department); and how well and how long the couple knew each other before coupling up.
OR, I'm interested in the guy physically but he only wants sex. My advice, don't worry about it and don't let it get you down. I know I should not care, but I want that aspect of my life to finally happen! I know that that's all I really cared about at that age. The thing is most 21 year olds (both guys and girls) are only looking for short-term flings and casual sex.
I'm starting to wonder if I need to lower my standards because maybe I'm the problem. I know that that's all I really cared about at that age. Yes I've thought about it but the problem is I'm always in a college environment where almost everyone is 18-22.
I'm one of the only 21 year old girls I know who has never been in a relationship. I know I've heard people say "Oh, well guys that age only want sex anyway" but I know a lot of girls my age with real boyfriends.